Question 1: Which of the following responses was I hoping to hear from my partner after my last post?

  •  “Oh love, I see that you’re stressing about your body image. You are absolutely gorgeous, and even more so when you are happy. Seeing you happy makes me want you even more. I’m sorry that your feet hurt, but they would hurt no matter what. I love you.”
  • “You could lose 100 pounds if you wanted to. I’m not saying you need to, but if you wanted to, you could.”

Question 2: Which of the above responses might cause me to stop eating unless my partner is watching because I don’t want him to know?

Question 3: Who now feels totally shitty about her body and is obsessing about food and trying to decide if bariatric surgery might be a good option after all?